The Affair's Subconscious Cause...

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When I first met Secret Amy there was something in her spirit that I sensed was unresolved.
What caused this mother of four to have an affair with a younger man?

Secret Amy wanted answers.
She sent me her handwriting and a few tree drawings.
Secret Amy wanted to know the cause of her possessed behavior.

I found the subconscious answer in the handwritings she gathered...
The notes, cards & envelopes of her lover, husband, mother and father.

My eye honed in on her lover's and father's handwritten notes.
There was something similar between her father and her lover.
Some traumatic sexual experience happened to Secret Amy during her early teens.
She couldn't remember anything early on...
She initially focused on her later teens.

When Secret Amy first read my Coffee with B analysis...
She acknowledged guilt feelings from a 'rape' experience that she didn't talk about to her therapist.
She referred to her self as a ' Sinner Born Bad.'
Where did this come from?
What unscrupulous exploiter preyed upon the goodness of a young girl?

Once Secret Amy read my book, Coffee with the Subconscious, she understood the importance of self honesty to get to the core of her disruptive behavior.

This is the misjudgment of her character...
Secret Amy's character passively expects others to know what she wants.
She has a hidden agenda that she's uncomfortable expressing.

Secret Amy stated...
'I feel I have vivid memories.
But memories are skewed.
I don't remember the truth...only what I think happened.'

What happened between Secret Amy and her father?
What Secret does Amy feel she has safely tucked away?
Why is Secret Amy SSSSSoooo full of Guilt?!

I'm still waiting for her to answer the question...
Why do you refer to your self as 'Sinner Born Bad?'

I wish Secret Amy didn't remind me of Faye Dunaway in Chinatown...
Who's responsible for preying on a young girl's need to be good?

Dear Amy....
Never be afraid to question the actions of others and express how you feel!

Coffee with the Subconscious.

Take care,
B.

Because You Deserve a Great Relationship...

www.bettyrozakis.com
Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious










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