Coffee with the Subconscious

Dear B... Can you tell from my handwriting what I need to do to become authentic and content with myself? Falconer F 48 Yes, Falconer .... You like to be courteous and clear... But your spontaneous tendencies are being suffocated in order to achieve self-control and what you feel is appropriate behavior. These are some of your inner contradictions that make you feel like an impostor. But more heartfelt is the fact that you feel insignificant and lonely. You want to emphasize your own position but keep making excuses for yourself. Trying to stand your ground and assert yourself... You feel like you're split in two. You're resisting, shielding yourself and hiding your anger. You're prudent, disciplined and are able to give the impression that you're calm...untroubled...serene... But you're feeling self-conscious and lack sincerity. You understand other people and can easily put yourself in their position But in doing so you risk losing your ow

Dear B, I have had a chronic (non-stop) headache for the past 13 months as a result of a brutal sudden divorce and am in constant pain. Enclosed also is a copy of my ex's handwriting. Thank you so much! Aching in Flagstaff Hi.... No wonder you're in such chronic pain! This man is obsessed with giving the impression of refined masculine charm. But the truth is.... Your ex-husband is a VERY harsh and manipulative man. He knows how to hide his true self and won't stop until he gets what he wants. He knows how to mess with your head. Your type of character wants to avoid conflict... You go along to get along.... You're being too diplomatic and keeping your TRUE feelings all bottled up inside of your head. You're unsure of yourself .. You feel guilty, beaten and discouraged. Please know that it's NOT your fault! On his note to you he signed.... Namaste This man doesn't care about mutual respect and deep understanding of truth from the

I noticed two men at the front of my property line... They stood facing my front window... Comfortably discussing... I never saw them before.... I felt the tension erupt inside my body... I KNEW that something was amiss..... They smiled and waved.... then drove away They were up to something..... On Saturday the letter arrived. A recent survey determined that the outer most part of our yard didn't belong to us... I felt violated. This MUST be a mistake. That's not what we were told when we bought the property! Then I heard a beep.... A text from my husband... We'll confirm their findings..... But it's not so bad to have help maintaining the front area... They'll probably do a nice job. SO...where was the problem? Free landscaping help to alleviate an arduous burden. More time to create and enjoy my life. A blessing in disguise.

I'm relatively new to Twitter... But the thing that I find the most compelling.... And...mentally stimulating... Is being forced to express my thoughts within a finite space. A VERY finite space of 140 Characters. I've had my slip-ups and stumbles along the way... And noticed that I'm not alone. But the MOST REVEALING pattern is.... The different types of characters that get exposed Both consciously and subconsciously. The "True" person comes to surface .... The simplicity of truth. A modern "Freudian Slip"! Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bettyrozakis.com

The integrity of Art is not for sale... OR, going along with whatever is tweeted. I recently witnessed and participated in a couple of writers commenting .... They referenced the ICON Ernest Hemingway. Apparently, Ernest Hemingway wasn't comfortable with his first drafts. These budding young authors referenced this "master" when... They arduously became disillusioned with "first drafts" of writing... Falling VERY short of their "purist" expectations. Hemingway apparently was candid about having to subject himself to several "drafts" to arrive to HIS truth. When I questioned the VALIDITY of this concept.... That first drafts were not ALWAYS "shit" as Hemingway proclaimed... But rather a problem when too much thinking to cover up the truth was exercised. One of the tweeters.....an acclaimed author....renneged on her initial response... RT. But she kept her response "narrow". She @ me stating that she did he

Two twenty-eight year old women... Friends conversing on Twitter... The Scientist Writer wanted reassurance from her friends. Something about her marriage troubled her. She had difficulty communicating her feelings to her spouse. So...she forwarded her husband a link.. She was afraid that she was TOO assertive with her husband. A Writer friend responded with laughter. A superficial response to a deep troubled feeling.... Scientist Writer was on the right track trying to express her feelings... She was worried that she was being TOO FORWARD with her husband. What kind of marriage did they have that she stressed about communicating with her husband about having a baby? So I Tweeted my "take" on this genuine concern. More needed to be addressed other than laughter and forwarding a link. A faster than lightening reply appeared in my @CoffeewithB.... Her troubled concern turned into.... "Tongue in cheek.....we're 100% in agreement on baby time line....t

I woke up to Elle Magazine's Tweet .... Their Quote of the day..... Madonna believes that she won't be "Happy" unless she becomes as famous as God. She's STUCK in a Universal Notion of PERFECTION. Somehow her innate character fell into quicksand.... She needs the aid of her other energy points to Save her from sinking. The source of Madonna's unhappiness is internal.... Buried way deep below her strenuous workouts... and the firing applause of her followers. Her innate character gets Angry... I recall hearing that she was a straight "A' student... Something happened early on in her life that infuriated her... But instead of addressing this injustice directly she shifted the focus ... Madonna at first shifted the focus to doing the "correct" thing with her grades in school.... Then....she went to an opposite extreme to perfect herself in the Universal Realm of Fame! Madonna experienced two failed marriages... She has two impressionable child

It was November of 2007. The cover of a reputable magazine caught my eye... It had actual handwriting on its cover. I was rushed and didn't have time to read it... But I kept it. It was THE ART ISSUE of W Magazine.... Isn't art supposed to be imitative of truth? The Creative Director, Dennis Freedman, wanted to... "Focus on women iconographic figures." Hence, the signed cover of Angelina Jolie and subsequent signed photos of other famous women: Britney Spears, Jessica Simpson, Julia Roberts, Jennifer Aniston, Katie Holmes, Cameron Diaz, Lindsay Lohan and Nicole Kidman. But it's not the women in the photos that have signed their pictures. Richard Prince signed each woman's photograph. It's this "contemporary" artist's character and personality depicted on each photo... It's Richard Prince's attitude and feelings of each woman celebrity that is projected on to the world. Interestingly, when Richard Prince thinks of Cameron Diaz and Jul

On the Good Morning America video clip I just happened to click on.... George Stephanopoulos asked Julia Roberts this question: Are you ambitious? Julia Roberts answered something like... No...it's more of a lofty sense of destiny. George seemed surprised with her answer. As a "Destined" Graphologist... Julia's answer made sense to me. All my life I've saved every handwritten card and letter that was sent to me. It wasn't a conscious thing... It was something that I just HAD to do. I usually don't save magazines...but I couldn't let go of a particular issue of W. It was the ART issue...and it had photos of the actual handwriting of particular movie stars! Since I don't usually read the content of handwritings... I neglected to READ the intent of the artist... Richard Prince's "Signed" publicity shots. When I sat down to examine Julia Robert's "handwriting" from this magazine to write this Blog.. I sen

Several years ago, one of my clients sent me the book... EAT...PRAY ....LOVE by Elizabeth Gilbert. She was sooooo excited to share it with me. I tried to read it.... But something about it bothered me... Last night I reluctantly saw the movie. I respect the starring actors....Julia Roberts, Javier Bardem and Richard Jenkins. I witnessed the interview with Julia Roberts and George Stephanopoulos... Why did Julia Roberts act in a similar capacity to my client? Why did Julia Roberts send this book to all her friends as a Christmas present? Watching the movie, I thought that Julia Roberts did a brilliant rendition of Elizabeth Gilbert. Especially in the scene in the car with her husband.... Liz looked at her husband with a look of DISDAIN as he talked about graduate school. What kind of a woman would look down her nose at a man who was trying to better himself? A woman with a superior/ aloof attitude that will manipulate others for her own gain. A woman with deep unresolve

They wouldn't take "NO" for an answer. I was scared to death! I just couldn't do it.... How was I supposed to orient my head to think another way? I could hardly cut and paste... But I could do e-mails. They were DETERMINED to BRAND me... And get me on to social media .... Blog and Tweet.... Mann oh mann...I was going to make ssssoooo many mistakes. How was I going to cope? How do ya do...? What's this mean? How do I get into Twitter? How do I create a new Blog? What? Sign in? Sign Out? @...#...What the heck? They fumed with my excessive questions.... You need to LOOK and THINK it through... This is what they kept repeating.... The drill sergeants made me figure it out for myself. Tough Love. Now I'm addicted... NewYorkCityPR is off to LA.... Seizing a REALITY opportunity that totally suits their nature. They know who they are. Thank you NewYorkCityPR. Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bett

I watched Marian write in front of me.. Her rigid self-control.. Like she was wearing a uniform. She couldn't ...wouldn't dare express How she really felt. She conditioned herself to adapt to what others wanted... But in actuality....it was what SHE thought that they wanted. She hardly listened to them.... Only heard what she wanted to hear. Soooo used to squashing her true feelings and desires. Her character is the type to need to do the right thing... She had to do the correct thing.... She had to make sure that everyone and everything around her was perfect! But her handwriting revealed all her bottled up anger... She felt embarrassed... But needed to hide it by manipulating the truth about her life. This made her feel sad and depressed. I asked her what her husband was like. She adamantly stated that HE was the perfectionist. She described his writing as being messy. I gently stated that she had mistaken notions and that I could help her ease her bu

Quarter Year Crisis? Mid-Life Crisis? Am I Bi-Polar? Why am I so unsettled / depressed? What can I do to help myself? It's important to understand your innate basic driving force... Is it image....fear....or anger? Then...let's look at your handwriting and see where you're stuck. Do you lack courage? Are you trying to be too perfect? Are you trying to please everyone but yourself? The list goes on and on and on. What should you do to get more "in sync" with yourself? Here's some possibilities.... The right productive activity. Being authentic. Stop questioning and have faith. Introspection. Relaxing on a beach. Creativity. Understanding those unresolved relationships. Get your customized answers.. Because You Deserve a Great Relationship... Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bettyrozakis.com

Ali gave Roberto the "First Impression Rose"... There was something about him that she immediately sensed. And him too... It was in his rhythm That couldn't be changed..... Or pretended not to be. Ali fell for his deep sensitivity and his focused demeanor. He was a serious solid guy Who just happened to be VERY good looking. But was he for real.... or another chameleon like a few of the others? The evidence / confirmation came on the last night. Roberto presented her with their picture with his message on the back. It was a contained well-structured Spontaneous writing...with adaptable self-control. His deep sensitivity was shown in his Hippocratic temperament. Granted, I was only able to examine the writing for a brief moment off the television screen... But it seems that it's enough to confirm what was already sensed. Thank you Ali and Roberto for bringing true romance back into our lives. We wish you all of life's best! Because You Des

On the set of Mr. and Mrs. Smith.... Brad and Angelina immediately connected. They couldn't help themselves. It was beyond their conscious moral grasp. There was no turning back. Both scandalously clever... Both possessive....materialistic... The love of intrigue spurred them into action. And the thought of conflict and controversy triggered their joy of anticipation... Not avoidance. What a perfect set for the spontaneous thrust of similar virtues.... Enjoying the web and fight of intrigue. Two actors playing the roles that emitted from their souls... The meeting of two similar souls that became their real life. They created a wake they knew they would survive and conquer from. A relationship that works.... Derived from two complimentary rhythms.... Originating deep in their soul... The marriage of their subconscious. Because You Deserve a Great Relationship... Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bettyrozakis.com