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Oprah's Tearful Knowledge.....

I tuned in to watch Oprah and Barbara Walters... I watched Oprah's struggle... The flow of uncontrollable tears... Oprah's tears resonated in my soul. I had the impression that Oprah was of a different character.... One of Pride and Concern with External Image.... My impression was wrong... The evidence was in her handwriting. Oprah's Character needs to be Correct... She's the Crusader who Inspires.... She's Principled and can be quite Argumentative.... Calculative in her Reserve. Oprah's Tears reveal her Inner Contradictions. There's a difference between how she actually feels and how she ought to feel. She's Determined to Hold Off Unacceptable Emotions. She has a need to protect herself from danger.... This danger lies within her.... Honesty is Not a Danger. It's Vindication.... Know Your Self......Know Your Relationships......Know Your Solution Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the S

To Grey Or Not To Grey....

I Love browsing the Art section of the Bookstore. It was the Photography section... A book depicting women.. Beautiful women of all ages sharing what they learned... A particular quote resonated with me for several years.... Several women quoted in similar ways... It wouldn't go away.... They wished they would have done it sooner.... Let their hair go to its natural state.... No more color. I decided to give it a try... Could I wear Grey well? I didn't see what my loved ones saw... They Approached me with kindness... Some confronted me with the Truth.... Others seized the opportunity to Lie. Looking at myself in the mirror... Was I Ignorant or In Denial? I sought feedback... I wanted to understand... My warm skin tones... Look Horrible in Grey. Cool skin tones wear grey well. No More Grey for Me! Know Your Self.....Know Your Relationships.....Know Your Solution Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Su

Coffee With Denial...

A Young Woman Wrote a Letter.... She wrote a letter and left it on the table. She left it on the table for me to see... I moved it.... She returned it front and center. Did she have a question? She didn't ask... But she wanted me to see. This is the type they call... Passive-Aggressive. A Spiritual Sloth... Not Wanting to Know... Not Wanting to Realize. They Deny... They Believe Denying helps. It's a struggle... Her Struggle.... An Innocent Soul.... A Wanting Soul.... Too Obliging to Others... Too Accommodating to her Man. Too Much Lost Time.... She Wanted to Believe... She Wanted to Believe.... Her Handwriting depicts a Trying Strength... A need for Breathing Space... She needs her Independence... She's Progressing... She's Cautious..... Streetwise and Secretive. Contained..... Productive Action.... Exercising Objective Judgment. The Right Remedy for her Character. Take care, B. Bett

Coffee Date with Harriet......2nd Cup

Harriet wasn't kidding when she stated that she has fun drawing trees.... What a wealth of information I had before me... Harriet was drawing trees .... Way before I asked her to.... Five years before. Harriet's character loves going to the depths of her soul..... What are her deep concerns? Harriet asked if her subconscious can change, or be adjusted over time... Yes....Harriet.... Your Subconscious has adjusted and evolved over the past five years. Five years ago Harriet had a stronger need for both of her parent's approval... A barbed wired nest.... A loss of Hope. A loss of Hope in her Relationships... A loss of Hope in her Aspirations. Harriet was Confident, yet highly defensive in her attitude toward Others. Harriet is on her guard about sex. It's like she's placing a decoy. What's her Achilles Heel? Why does she feel Barred from entering a Holy Place... Barred from her place of Sanctuary.... She's tr

Coffee Date with Harriet.......1st Cup

My comrade perceived herself.... A Little Funny & Dry.... I pressed her to Pick her Pseudonym..... She expressed being Stuck.... Then all of a sudden...... Out of her Subconscious... Harriet appeared. Harriet it is. Of all the books in the whole wide world.... Why did Harriet choose to write about Plato? Why did Plato make sense for her character? Plato is all about doing the right thing.... Doing the correct thing... The Most Authentic thing. This is a positive energy point for her character. For Harriet...... She knows that she wants and needs to assert herself.... She wants to make sure that her subconscious is in agreement... In agreement with her to do the right thing. Her handwriting shows that she's stuck.... Harriet has expressed that she's stuck.... Perhaps the answer is hidden in her trees. Let's take a look at her trees..... Harriet has a lot of fun drawing trees... To Be Continued.... Take

Awaiting Her Pseudonym.....

When I first saw her handwriting... I felt a refined elegance.... But she was stumbling. Her handwriting revealed a lack of confidence... She had difficulty adapting... She had a need to assert herself... She wanted to assert herself... Why couldn't she assert herself? There was something unresolved from her past.... That lingered in her subconscious. She chose to write about Love... She wrote about the love she found in a book. It wasn't the Romantic Love of Jane Austin.. It wasn't the Tortured Love of Leo Tolstoy... She chose to write about the Platonic Love in Plato's Symposium. A Universal Love... Plato made sense for her character. But her focus was on the previous events to the dinner party. Why was she stuck? I asked to see more of her handwriting... And some of her trees... She dutifully complied and fulfilled my request. I asked her to pick her pseudonym... She wanted me to pick one for her... 

Connecting Characters....

When I first met her.... I sensed a connection But she would do things that perplexed me.... The answer was in her handwriting. It was her Image that concerned her... Her internal self image.... She felt insignificant. She was uncomfortable revealing her first name. Some sort of unsatisfactory attitudes from another. I felt the Good in her.... I learned from her Wisdom. I had the Courage to correct her. She was impressionable.... She didn't trust her opinion. She relied on others. She created Crazy Dramas for Attention. I couldn't let her get away with it. My character inspired her to assert herself... With confidence to Be Authentic. I wanted to help her.... I needed to help her.... I received her birthday card... Her handwriting evolved. Realistic...objective....practical.. Optimistic with productive initiative... A radiant precise real sense of self. She raised a good son.... He was drawn to my character because of her... Our connection wa

Suicide... Migraines...Personal Torment

Tyler Clementi's Drastic Measure... Jumping Off the George Washington Bridge... It was His way of dealing with his Unresolved Deep Personal Torment. We ALL Have some deep and personal unresolved pain.... This personal torment manifests itself in various ways.... Suicide...Migraines... Not Being True to Ourselves.... Doing What Others Want... Conforming Too Much... Promiscuous Behaviors... Abusing Others....Running Away.... Blaming Others....Anger... Lying....Seeking Attention. It doesn't have to be this way... Handwriting Analysis / Graphology... Defines.....Guides....Gives Clarity. Everyone Needs a Clear Understanding of their character... The right way to express their psychic energy in order to thrive and blossom. Define your Blueprint.... It worked for me.... I Know it can benefit you. Take care, B. Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bettyrozakis.com

Dear B....I Keep Failing...Why? F44

What's Wrong with Me? It's SSSSOOOOO Bad...... I Flunked my Oral Exams Again!!! I have trouble expressing what I want and need to say. Ball & Chain I received several pages of Ball & Chain's Handwriting. This beautiful woman's Sorrow ran deep. The evidence was in her pinched a's and o's. Why couldn't she let light into her life? Allow herself to shine in the sunlight? She blamed her mother... She took her anger out on her... This is what daughter's usually do... When the daughter doesn't want to see the Truth. When it hurts too much... Ball & Chain's basic character gets angry.... Gets angry and wants to perfect the people around her. Her parents didn't get along so she saw her mother as the source of this dysfunction. Were her actions justified? Perhaps.... Her mother had her own anger that she was dealing with... An anger that was left unresolved. Angry Mother took her anger out on her husband. Thus c

The Mark of Larry....

He always Loved the Personal Touch... Picking out the Right Gift at Christmas... Handwriting Personal Expressive Thank-you Cards. Commemorating His Best Friend Alone in Times Square. He LOVED to Express Himself.... Lots of Heart! Then He Published His Book... The Ultimate in Personal Expression! As a Graphologist I always wondered about his Signature. I had trouble interpreting it....... SSSOOOO much Intense Emotional Energy... A Need for Personal Expression..... But with a Purpose..... A Creative Intellectual Purpose... His character has a strong need to be true to themselves. To be Authentic..... And Independent. His Signature was Tentative.... Shy..... Withdrawn..... Needing to Divert itself into a Socially Useful Channel... Then Came the Mark of Larry... His chosen Pen Name... Confidence.....Will-power....Tenacity Thank you... B. Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bettyrozakis.com

Defending Lady Gaga...

I remember an evening on Facebook.... One of my friends was defending Lady Gaga. Amidst the debating rhetoric.... Gina provided a link.... This link had a picture.... A Depiction... A Confident yet Demure Lady Gaga... I became intrigued and wanted to find out more. Lady Gaga reminded me of Janis Joplin. Gina personally met Lady Gaga... Spent quality time on her touring bus. Lady Gaga personalized her Tour Book.... Addressing Gina along with her Signature. There was something puzzling about the handwriting. It had a contradictory quality about it. Lady Gaga... Full of imagination... Idealism... Vivacity. Lady Gaga feels like an Impostor.... Escaping to another realm... An exalted whimsical realm. Lady Gaga is emotionally tired..... Her character is emotionally drained. Innately reserved and introspective... She has a deep need to belong... Lady Gaga's character has a need.... A need for authenticity and self-esteem.... The right productive activi

Handwriting Answers Your Questions.......F29

I received a text the other day. I want a dog... And my Independence... Why do I like being alone so much? She wanted me to write a Blog... A Blog about why she wanted to Be Alone. Why she wanted her Independence. I asked her to hand write me a Dear B letter. To see her state of mind... To figure out her Basic Character... To see if she's stuck in a particular Energy Level. What are the Dominant Signs in her writing? What Defense Mechanisms is she using? To See who she wants her Independence from. To See why she wants to Be Alone. Once I figure out her Basic Character... And SEE her Subconscious. I'll be able to give her a tangible answer. I can't answer her questions without seeing her handwriting! She said Ok. But then..... I'm still waiting. Know Your Self......Know Your Relationships......Know Your Solution Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bettyrozakis.com

Another Handwriting That Haunts....

I loved him.... I came across a card he wrote to his wife. Passionately contained... An original and gifted mind. He had a stubbornness about him... An aggressive and progressive mind. A brilliant mind. An Honorable man. But his signature gave him away. His signature in contrast with the rest of his handwriting. He once wrote for me that "Graphology was baloney". The underscore in his signature depicted such stubborn will-power and tenacity. His signature was such a 'tug-of-war' between expansion and suppression... A prodigal naivety... Sensitivity and worry... No wonder he got sick.... The personal unresolved relationships in your life... Can slowly eat away at your soul! Don't let this happen to you! Know Your Self.....Know Your Relationships....Know Your Solution.

The Dead Still Speak...

I found some old handwritten cards.... I wanted to understand. There once was a man... We all loved him. His exaggerated impulsiveness.... Dramatized feelings... He had a need to attract attention To be loved. A man of principle... Reflective with self-control.. Indecisive in action.... But quite assertive in stating an opinion! He suffered from a deep rooted depression... A Cerebral Melancholic ... In need of mental activity Searching for answers. Losing touch with reality. A deeply sensitive man... Susceptible and felt badly placed. He got sick.... The Doctors never found out why. His innate character suffered anxiety... Always wanting to do the correct thing... The RIGHT thing. He tried to relax and appreciate life... Escaping to Greece. I tried to be optimistic for him... B....I'M DYING! My helplessness continues to haunt me....

Dear B...Why Am I Upset & Frustrated? F17

Dear B... It is just that I sometimes wonder if by being myself, wearing my heart on my sleeve is making me too vulnerable for my own good. Bandage You're impressionable but with a reserved attitude. A bit nervous and indecisive you strive to be independent. You aspire and have potential... You want to be consistent and reliable in character and thought. You're currently preoccupied with wanting to belong... To be accepted by family and friends.... A need to captivate others. You're trying to be flexible in how you protect your feelings and emotions. Getting a bit caught up in dreams... and impractical things. Some of your frustration could be... Your parents splitting up? Trying to maintain relations with both. This focused energy needs an outlet... A constructive outlet... A time to develop personal skills. You know how to focus your attentions... Concentrate. This is the time to balance your social needs ... Do something practical or creative for yourself. What do you fi

Dear B ........Searching for Answers F50

Dear B... What can you tell about me from my writing... Can you tell anything about the state of my health? What do the trees show? Can you tell anything about how an employer might view me as a perspective employee? Carcharm Dear Carcharm... Deeply intelligent You have a clear and objective mind.... But are too conciliatory in your attitude. You're overly trying to do the correct and right thing... You're unhappy and trying to hide your true feelings and emotions. You're optimistic and need your independence. You're receptive and have a need to express yourself.... But you're holding back. Desiring to be appreciated... Feelings of impotence linger. Some sort of irregularity persists... Sudden outburst of emotion / action... Paroxysm of laughter. Irregularity in Endocrine system... Visceral spasms... Nervous energy. Psychological barriers persist. Lack of freedom of feeling. Inner conflicts. Inconsistent will-power and action. Lack of emotional equilibrium Lack of I

The Pseudonym That Wasn't...

I received a Dear B letter in the mail... I was looking forward to helping another. I didn't expect what slowly emerged. It was a pleasant and amiable handwriting.... A sense of its own rhythm. She didn't ask me a specific question. Approaching sixty.... Her self-image is troubled by an event that occurred so...long....ago. It happened during her mid to late twenties... It continues to haunt her. She needs self-acceptance. She's making an effort to clarify and develop her thinking process... And wants to emphasize her own position.... But she feels insecure. She's easily influenced emotionally... But manages to maintain her sense of reserve. There's something about feeling obsequious... Yielding to the desires of another. This submissive attitude is wearing you out! You have a natural graceful way about you. Well-mannered, you know how to persevere and artfully manage things your way. You're quite capable...kind-hearted...and charming.

Eternal Nurturer

He believes in them... Those sparkling deep set of eyes The erect posture That has its own rhythm. A knowing rhythm... A kind rhythm... He brings them comfort A comfort to their unique being. The inquisitive deeply sensitive mind.... The detached observer of the passing scene. But he's not really detached.... He can't be... It's not in his nature. It's his way of inclusion. A Magnanimous inclusion. Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bettyrozakis.com

Dear B... How Can I Become Authentic?

Dear B... Can you tell from my handwriting what I need to do to become authentic and content with myself? Falconer F 48 Yes, Falconer .... You like to be courteous and clear... But your spontaneous tendencies are being suffocated in order to achieve self-control and what you feel is appropriate behavior. These are some of your inner contradictions that make you feel like an impostor. But more heartfelt is the fact that you feel insignificant and lonely. You want to emphasize your own position but keep making excuses for yourself. Trying to stand your ground and assert yourself... You feel like you're split in two. You're resisting, shielding yourself and hiding your anger. You're prudent, disciplined and are able to give the impression that you're calm...untroubled...serene... But you're feeling self-conscious and lack sincerity. You understand other people and can easily put yourself in their position But in doing so you risk losing your ow

Dear B....Aching in Flagstaff

Dear B, I have had a chronic (non-stop) headache for the past 13 months as a result of a brutal sudden divorce and am in constant pain. Enclosed also is a copy of my ex's handwriting. Thank you so much! Aching in Flagstaff Hi.... No wonder you're in such chronic pain! This man is obsessed with giving the impression of refined masculine charm. But the truth is.... Your ex-husband is a VERY harsh and manipulative man. He knows how to hide his true self and won't stop until he gets what he wants. He knows how to mess with your head. Your type of character wants to avoid conflict... You go along to get along.... You're being too diplomatic and keeping your TRUE feelings all bottled up inside of your head. You're unsure of yourself .. You feel guilty, beaten and discouraged. Please know that it's NOT your fault! On his note to you he signed.... Namaste This man doesn't care about mutual respect and deep understanding of truth from the

A Blessing In Disguise

I noticed two men at the front of my property line... They stood facing my front window... Comfortably discussing... I never saw them before.... I felt the tension erupt inside my body... I KNEW that something was amiss..... They smiled and waved.... then drove away They were up to something..... On Saturday the letter arrived. A recent survey determined that the outer most part of our yard didn't belong to us... I felt violated. This MUST be a mistake. That's not what we were told when we bought the property! Then I heard a beep.... A text from my husband... We'll confirm their findings..... But it's not so bad to have help maintaining the front area... They'll probably do a nice job. SO...where was the problem? Free landscaping help to alleviate an arduous burden. More time to create and enjoy my life. A blessing in disguise.

Wise Twitter or Perilous Twitter?

I'm relatively new to Twitter... But the thing that I find the most compelling.... And...mentally stimulating... Is being forced to express my thoughts within a finite space. A VERY finite space of 140 Characters. I've had my slip-ups and stumbles along the way... And noticed that I'm not alone. But the MOST REVEALING pattern is.... The different types of characters that get exposed Both consciously and subconsciously. The "True" person comes to surface .... The simplicity of truth. A modern "Freudian Slip"! Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bettyrozakis.com

Art for Truths Sake NOT Public Consumption

The integrity of Art is not for sale... OR, going along with whatever is tweeted. I recently witnessed and participated in a couple of writers commenting .... They referenced the ICON Ernest Hemingway. Apparently, Ernest Hemingway wasn't comfortable with his first drafts. These budding young authors referenced this "master" when... They arduously became disillusioned with "first drafts" of writing... Falling VERY short of their "purist" expectations. Hemingway apparently was candid about having to subject himself to several "drafts" to arrive to HIS truth. When I questioned the VALIDITY of this concept.... That first drafts were not ALWAYS "shit" as Hemingway proclaimed... But rather a problem when too much thinking to cover up the truth was exercised. One of the tweeters.....an acclaimed author....renneged on her initial response... RT. But she kept her response "narrow". She @ me stating that she did he

Denial Kills the Soul

Two twenty-eight year old women... Friends conversing on Twitter... The Scientist Writer wanted reassurance from her friends. Something about her marriage troubled her. She had difficulty communicating her feelings to her spouse. So...she forwarded her husband a link.. She was afraid that she was TOO assertive with her husband. A Writer friend responded with laughter. A superficial response to a deep troubled feeling.... Scientist Writer was on the right track trying to express her feelings... She was worried that she was being TOO FORWARD with her husband. What kind of marriage did they have that she stressed about communicating with her husband about having a baby? So I Tweeted my "take" on this genuine concern. More needed to be addressed other than laughter and forwarding a link. A faster than lightening reply appeared in my @CoffeewithB.... Her troubled concern turned into.... "Tongue in cheek.....we're 100% in agreement on baby time line....t

Madonna's Misinformed Focus

I woke up to Elle Magazine's Tweet .... Their Quote of the day..... Madonna believes that she won't be "Happy" unless she becomes as famous as God. She's STUCK in a Universal Notion of PERFECTION. Somehow her innate character fell into quicksand.... She needs the aid of her other energy points to Save her from sinking. The source of Madonna's unhappiness is internal.... Buried way deep below her strenuous workouts... and the firing applause of her followers. Her innate character gets Angry... I recall hearing that she was a straight "A' student... Something happened early on in her life that infuriated her... But instead of addressing this injustice directly she shifted the focus ... Madonna at first shifted the focus to doing the "correct" thing with her grades in school.... Then....she went to an opposite extreme to perfect herself in the Universal Realm of Fame! Madonna experienced two failed marriages... She has two impressionable child

Art or Deception?

It was November of 2007. The cover of a reputable magazine caught my eye... It had actual handwriting on its cover. I was rushed and didn't have time to read it... But I kept it. It was THE ART ISSUE of W Magazine.... Isn't art supposed to be imitative of truth? The Creative Director, Dennis Freedman, wanted to... "Focus on women iconographic figures." Hence, the signed cover of Angelina Jolie and subsequent signed photos of other famous women: Britney Spears, Jessica Simpson, Julia Roberts, Jennifer Aniston, Katie Holmes, Cameron Diaz, Lindsay Lohan and Nicole Kidman. But it's not the women in the photos that have signed their pictures. Richard Prince signed each woman's photograph. It's this "contemporary" artist's character and personality depicted on each photo... It's Richard Prince's attitude and feelings of each woman celebrity that is projected on to the world. Interestingly, when Richard Prince thinks of Cameron Diaz and Jul

Julia Roberts... Ambitious or Just Destined?

On the Good Morning America video clip I just happened to click on.... George Stephanopoulos asked Julia Roberts this question: Are you ambitious? Julia Roberts answered something like... No...it's more of a lofty sense of destiny. George seemed surprised with her answer. As a "Destined" Graphologist... Julia's answer made sense to me. All my life I've saved every handwritten card and letter that was sent to me. It wasn't a conscious thing... It was something that I just HAD to do. I usually don't save magazines...but I couldn't let go of a particular issue of W. It was the ART issue...and it had photos of the actual handwriting of particular movie stars! Since I don't usually read the content of handwritings... I neglected to READ the intent of the artist... Richard Prince's "Signed" publicity shots. When I sat down to examine Julia Robert's "handwriting" from this magazine to write this Blog.. I sen

Why the Appeal for Eat Pray Love?

Several years ago, one of my clients sent me the book... EAT...PRAY ....LOVE by Elizabeth Gilbert. She was sooooo excited to share it with me. I tried to read it.... But something about it bothered me... Last night I reluctantly saw the movie. I respect the starring actors....Julia Roberts, Javier Bardem and Richard Jenkins. I witnessed the interview with Julia Roberts and George Stephanopoulos... Why did Julia Roberts act in a similar capacity to my client? Why did Julia Roberts send this book to all her friends as a Christmas present? Watching the movie, I thought that Julia Roberts did a brilliant rendition of Elizabeth Gilbert. Especially in the scene in the car with her husband.... Liz looked at her husband with a look of DISDAIN as he talked about graduate school. What kind of a woman would look down her nose at a man who was trying to better himself? A woman with a superior/ aloof attitude that will manipulate others for her own gain. A woman with deep unresolve

They're a Dynamo!

They wouldn't take "NO" for an answer. I was scared to death! I just couldn't do it.... How was I supposed to orient my head to think another way? I could hardly cut and paste... But I could do e-mails. They were DETERMINED to BRAND me... And get me on to social media .... Blog and Tweet.... Mann oh mann...I was going to make ssssoooo many mistakes. How was I going to cope? How do ya do...? What's this mean? How do I get into Twitter? How do I create a new Blog? What? Sign in? Sign Out? @...#...What the heck? They fumed with my excessive questions.... You need to LOOK and THINK it through... This is what they kept repeating.... The drill sergeants made me figure it out for myself. Tough Love. Now I'm addicted... NewYorkCityPR is off to LA.... Seizing a REALITY opportunity that totally suits their nature. They know who they are. Thank you NewYorkCityPR. Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bett

Know Your Self... Avoid Calamity

I watched Marian write in front of me.. Her rigid self-control.. Like she was wearing a uniform. She couldn't ...wouldn't dare express How she really felt. She conditioned herself to adapt to what others wanted... But in actuality....it was what SHE thought that they wanted. She hardly listened to them.... Only heard what she wanted to hear. Soooo used to squashing her true feelings and desires. Her character is the type to need to do the right thing... She had to do the correct thing.... She had to make sure that everyone and everything around her was perfect! But her handwriting revealed all her bottled up anger... She felt embarrassed... But needed to hide it by manipulating the truth about her life. This made her feel sad and depressed. I asked her what her husband was like. She adamantly stated that HE was the perfectionist. She described his writing as being messy. I gently stated that she had mistaken notions and that I could help her ease her bu

What's Wrong With Me?

Quarter Year Crisis? Mid-Life Crisis? Am I Bi-Polar? Why am I so unsettled / depressed? What can I do to help myself? It's important to understand your innate basic driving force... Is it image....fear....or anger? Then...let's look at your handwriting and see where you're stuck. Do you lack courage? Are you trying to be too perfect? Are you trying to please everyone but yourself? The list goes on and on and on. What should you do to get more "in sync" with yourself? Here's some possibilities.... The right productive activity. Being authentic. Stop questioning and have faith. Introspection. Relaxing on a beach. Creativity. Understanding those unresolved relationships. Get your customized answers.. Because You Deserve a Great Relationship... Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bettyrozakis.com

Is Roberto the Real Thing for Ali?

Ali gave Roberto the "First Impression Rose"... There was something about him that she immediately sensed. And him too... It was in his rhythm That couldn't be changed..... Or pretended not to be. Ali fell for his deep sensitivity and his focused demeanor. He was a serious solid guy Who just happened to be VERY good looking. But was he for real.... or another chameleon like a few of the others? The evidence / confirmation came on the last night. Roberto presented her with their picture with his message on the back. It was a contained well-structured Spontaneous writing...with adaptable self-control. His deep sensitivity was shown in his Hippocratic temperament. Granted, I was only able to examine the writing for a brief moment off the television screen... But it seems that it's enough to confirm what was already sensed. Thank you Ali and Roberto for bringing true romance back into our lives. We wish you all of life's best! Because You Des

The Subconscious Connection of Brad and Angelina

On the set of Mr. and Mrs. Smith.... Brad and Angelina immediately connected. They couldn't help themselves. It was beyond their conscious moral grasp. There was no turning back. Both scandalously clever... Both possessive....materialistic... The love of intrigue spurred them into action. And the thought of conflict and controversy triggered their joy of anticipation... Not avoidance. What a perfect set for the spontaneous thrust of similar virtues.... Enjoying the web and fight of intrigue. Two actors playing the roles that emitted from their souls... The meeting of two similar souls that became their real life. They created a wake they knew they would survive and conquer from. A relationship that works.... Derived from two complimentary rhythms.... Originating deep in their soul... The marriage of their subconscious. Because You Deserve a Great Relationship... Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bettyrozakis.com

Who Understands Brad Pitt?

Brad Pitt is not who he seems... He puts a lot of effort to conceal. He feigns (pretends)... In his rigid self-control. Cunningly selfish like Angelina Jolie. He's stingy and preoccupied with his self-importance... He loves money and ownership. And he's quite combative too. The attraction between Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt is that they understand each other. This is why it was so easy for Brad Pitt to leave Jennifer Aniston. Jennifer Aniston's rhythm and character is more genuine. Any chance for a reconciliation? Why should Jennifer Aniston want to subject herself to such a combative pretender? They really have no common ground other than they are both actors. Jennifer Aniston is better off without him. Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bettyrozakis.com Know Your Self..... Know Your Relationships.... Know Your Solution.

Jennifer Aniston vs. Angelina Jolie

Jennifer Aniston never had a chance. There's a cunning selfishness ... that can be quite stubborn, possessive and vain. Protective, arrogant and patronizing ... Angelina Jolie is only too happy to demonstrate and prove her superiority. Jennifer is more reserved and contained... Straightforward, elegant and refined. She knows how to adapt and be diplomatic. Where does Brad Pitt fit into all of this? Why did he leave Jennifer? What unfulfilled need did Angelina fill for him? Any chance for a reconciliation? Because You Deserve a Great Relationship... Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bettyrozakis.com

Is He A Mr. Darcy or A Mr. Wickham?

So many girls get fooled... The charming and smooth Mr. Wickham types know how to flatter... And know how to say what women want to hear. Jane Austin made the HUGE mistake of falling for the smooth talker and lost her Mr. Darcy in real life. As a result, she spent her life trying to correct her mistake in her books. Hoping that others may learn from her devastating loss. If you're dating someone or communicating through a dating.com... Find out their true character... Get their handwriting.... Coffee with the Subconscious will tell you about their real character. We hope that you'll listen... To us and your deep inner voice. Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bettyrozakis.com

Lindsay Lohan's Subconscious

Lindsay is concentrating all of her efforts... She MUST conceal the truth about her self to the Judge. Lindsay fears loneliness. Lindsay needs social contact. Lindsay wants her independence. Lindsay resists discipline. Lindsay can be quite obstinate and stubborn..... Provocative and controversial. And finally.... It's VERY difficult for Lindsay to stay off of drugs and alcohol. Her basic nature resorts to a fantasy world to live a conflict-free life...... Drugs and alcohol help her stay oblivious Hence, her self-destructive and irresponsible behavior that landed her in jail. Lindsay's work is her saving grace. It's VERY important for Lindsay to do the type of work that SHE wants and not what others expect from her. Lindsay's basic character has an aggressive drive that encourages self-assertion at an early age. This is a source of driving energy for her. The problem occurs when her her aggressive drive gets blocked and replaced by submissive adapta

"Inception" and the Subconscious

Marion Cotillard... the wife in the movie... Had no choice but to kill herself. The combination / key to exposing her nagging torment ceased to exist. Leonardo diCaprio, her husband, told her that it didn't matter That it wasn't reality. He got rid of any trace of memory to the source of her deep inner pain. The end result was that it was unbearable for her to endure... She got angry... Marion Cotillard directed her anger elsewhere... She created HAVOC... Then she killed herself. On the other hand..... The son of the billionaire was vindicated. Freed of personal torment. His deep feeling of disappointing his father was addressed... Not tossed aside as irrelevant. And.... Leonardo di Caprio FINALLY addressed his pain.... His guilt over his wife's death. Was he able to become FREE and get home? Or, did he have more nagging torments still locked in his safe? Come to Coffee with the Subconscious... Address what is locked in YOUR safe. Smile again...

Disappointed Eyes

So many Disappointed Eyes. Myra wanted to make sure... Robert wanted to make sure... John and Suzanne wanted to make sure that their beloved was indeed what they sensed. That they were bad for their soul... And couldn't be changed!! Never second guess the handwriting. The tangible scientific evidence is there. It's like the X-ray of a malignant tumor. It needs to be addressed and cut out of your life. Disappointed eyes... Katherine had disappointed eyes. The look of deep disappointment penetrated her whole being. All his broken promises...all the lies.... And, in the way he made her feel. Always messing with her self-esteem. He could be so charming..... But it was the deformity of his rhythm that wouldn't go away. It would never go away. It was invisible but ALWAYS felt. The sociopath is a weak character who knows how to convince... To preserve their image at all costs. Getting "caught" is inexcusable.... It's a game for them... Pl

Married for the Right Reasons?

Carly came to see me. She opened up her journal which depicted five different versions of her handwriting style. She wanted to know if she married her husband for the "right" reasons. She didn't look like she had 5 different handwritings. She had an elegant rhythm about her---contained , confident, calm...a natural refined beauty. Why the need for 5 different Personas? She was embarking on a new venture--her own venture. Why the need to put forth so many different faces from her own personal elegant style? The depersonalized tortoise slow moving style. The person who wanted to make things happen....but under a false appearance. The child who wanted to please the reader. The person who wanted to imitate someone. The individual who had a keen awareness and understanding mindset. Which was her true writing? Her true self? It's the one that's the most refined.... The one with the most natural rhythm. This is her point of origin. Carly had a need

Dating Dilemma Resolved

John was tired of dating. He wanted to find love. Just as he decided to give up... Two beautiful girls entered his life. Beautiful smiles... Sparkling eyes... Similar cultural background... Pleasant to be with. But there was something about the one girl that he couldn't forget... Was it a good thing or a bad thing? He wasn't sure. John is a principled guy.... He had to choose... He didn't want to make a mistake. The confirmation was in all of their handwriting. Both girls wanted their handwriting analyzed. They were both spontaneous and fun loving. But they differed in independence, judgment and maturity. The rhythm of the handwriting confirmed John's initial hunch... There was something about Elena. John and Elena's rhythm connected in a way that was alien to the other girl. It was a comforting energy of two souls meant to be together. Because You Deserve a Great Relationship... Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subc

The Right Dream

Jen was engaged to be married. But she couldn't set a date and prepare for her wedding. It didn't feel right for her.... She didn't know why. The answer was in her handwriting. Jen's type of character needs her freedom and independence. She doesn't like conflict..so she finds herself "going along to get along". In her heart, she didn't want to be engaged... But she felt that it was expected and she didn't want to disappoint her family. Jen's anger festered. Her character is a free spirited entrepreneurial type. A quick.... tenacious.... conciliatory type of a mind. She needed the "right" productive activity.... She knew in her soul that it wasn't getting married. At least not now. But what was the right dream for her? As a child.... Jen loved to dance and twirl herself around her mother's kitchen. Her bedroom was filled with Barbie dolls and talking baby dolls... Jen never played with them. As Jen pirou

Dating Dot Coms.....

Brenda knocked on my door all excited. She found the man of her dreams on-line. It was one of those matchmaking websites. He was ssssoooo Perfect! The computers matched them at sssooo many levels! That very morning.... Brenda & Michael met for coffee at a local diner. The booths were equipped with paper placements. Brenda artfully placed a pen on the table and began doodling.... They each expressed their thoughts... Enough for me to decipher their common ground. The reality....not the contrived for effect. Brenda tried to convince me that he was dynamic, confident, sensitive, well-educated...refined. Michael loved art and skydiving. He traveled the world. I painstakingly tried to find this Thomas Crowne type of a man from the several written placements and napkins that she carefully placed before me. There was such a stark contrast between Brenda's outgoing, refined and intelligent writing and this other crude illegible stuff before me. Michael liked to comp

Coffee in Social Media

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Coffee with the Subconsious is now on all your favorite social media platforms. We are so thankful that @NewYorkCityPR took us on as a client just to set us up! I will be blogging about what Graphology (Handwriting Analysis) is and how it can benefit your life. You will be amazed! Congratulations to the winners (so far), @stylesonwheelz , @coloradoartist1 . @cabby0004 , @sarahaustin , @haveuheard1 , @hellocalla , @pRinceSsReni , @BrookeDWW , @Markfantastical one more winner will win! ------> Congratulations to @i3angorang who won the last spot! We look forward to analyzing the winners. Instructions will be on our brand new website,  — launching tomorrow! This was our beginning on Social Media.... We've evolved to... Betty Rozakis Graphology Author of Coffee with the Subconscious www.bettyrozakis.com