Thank You Kind Michele...

It was only a year ago...

Her leading kindness permeated the room...
Her silent yet soulful composure
Tried to hold steadfast to control her tears for another's pain.

A few weeks ago Michele Peace handed over her helm of WIN to another.
It was a subtle thoughtful step away.

Blessed with a Grace for Listening...
She brought solace and encouragement to my soul.

I don't know the reason for Michele's sudden death...
Why this calming spirit was suddenly thrust from her sons, husband, family and many friends.

Michele's Radiant Kindness lives on...
In the hearts of all she touched.
Her Memory is Truly Eternal.

Thank you Kind Michele...

Because You Deserve Great Relationships...

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Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious

Why Can't I Be Happy Like Everyone Else?

A young woman came to see me.
She was tired of being Bi-Polar...
That it was consuming her...
She was either talkative, intense, active or silent...
She desperately sought balance in her life.

I asked her to write for me and draw a few trees.

Here's what her handwriting and trees revealed...

There was a youthfulness about her...
It was as if she was emotionally stuck in an earlier time of her life.
Something that she was secretive about.

Her character is socially competitive...
She cares how she is perceived by others.
She created an image that for her, was more socially acceptable than the truth.
It's this closed, inflexible attitude that causes her unpredictable moods...

She feels a need to protect herself...

She's afraid.

She's afraid of being unworthy...

She's got all this bottled up anger because she's suppressing a deeper need.

Some highly troublesome experience happened to her around the age of 10.

She feels ashamed.

Her pride and vanity are getting in the way of her honesty.

This is her misjudgment.

She needs introspection.

Honest self-acceptance is her remedy.

Try not to be overly concerned about your image to others.

It's your own genuine internal feelings and experiences that are more important.

The good and the bad!

She'll be happy once she tells the truth honestly without a socially acceptable spin even it it's negative.

Just like Anne Hathaway in the movie, Rachel Getting Married.

Because You Deserve a Great Relationship...

www.bettyrozakis.com

Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious

What Happened to Virginia Woolf?

"My life has been stolen from me. I'm living in a town I have no wish to live in... I'm living a life I have no wish to live... How did this happen?" - Virginia Woolf

What does Virginia's handwriting reveal about her character that made her so unhappy and drove her to suicide?


Let's take a look...
Highly intelligent and creative...
Excitable and intense in her passions, she also felt inhibited and restrained her natural desires.
Idealistic and romantic, Virginia changed her ideas, tastes and decisions to avoid conflict and tension creating situations. 
She lacked the courage to express herself.
This is a typical regret for Virginia's character type.

Virginia would have been much happier if she had expressed and acknowledged her anger.

I've seen so much unhappiness in people's handwriting where they become overly complacent and don't stick up for themselves!  This makes them anxious and unhappy.  
They get labeled with some sort of mental illness like Bi-polar,  ADHD and/or get Migraines.  
All they really need is to have the confidence in themselves to express their opinion on what they know in their hearts they want out of their lives and NOT allow themselves to get talked into something they know they don't want to do!!!
Don't let this happen to you!

What self defeating habits is your character stuck in?
Let's get you or a loved one out of the abyss...

Take care,
B.


Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious
www.bettyrozakis.com

Beyonce...Genuine Self-Awareness?

I was surprised to receive Beyonce's handwriting sample from my follower, @lov3RENI...
Why did Beyonce publicly disclose her handwritten Mother's Day letter to her mother?
Let's see what her handwriting reveals...

Beyonce has genuine good feelings about her mother...
Michelle Obama as well. (I found the letter she wrote to the First Lady on Google)
But when it comes to herself...
There's a lack of harmony between her social attitudes and her private reality.

Is she genuinely self-aware?
Yes...
But, she's trying to shift the focus....

Socially to the world...
She's an independent young woman with a sense of her own value.
More of an introverted type, she needs her privacy.
But she's feeling anxious and impressionable...
She's acting one way yet feeling another.
A conscious secretiveness...
Seeking refuge...
She's erecting a wall between herself and her problems.

Beyonce has a curious mind.
Variable in her self-confidence...
She's sensitive about other people's opinion of her.
She has a need to talk and express herself...

Beyonce has independent ideas and judgment.
An audacious and active character...
She can be full of energy and speed in action.
Her character tends to mistrust and fears insecurity.
She's feeling scornful & provoking.

Beyonce has a desire to be appreciated...
Possessed with the ability to convince others...
She's feeling some kind of powerlessness.
Why the need for precipitate action?
What is she trying to hold on to?

I wish I had access to some of Beyonce's earlier handwritings...
And the handwriting of the important relationships in her life.
But what's true for her character is this...
Most of her issues have to do with finding reliable sources of guidance and support outside herself...
This is her character's misjudgment!

What's important for her character to know is this:
You have within you everything you need to move through life with dignity and grace.
STOP looking for answers outside of yourself!!!
Be more Self-affiriming!

Don't be afraid to address your personal issues directly.
STOP shifting the focus by rallying public support!!

Because You Deserve a Great Relationship...

www.bettyrozakis.com
Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious

The Illusion of Truth...

Today on Twitter... Kelly Osbourne tweeted a Nietzsche quote:
    
      'Sometimes people don't want to hear the truth because they don't want their illusions destroyed.'

I don't know the purpose of Kelly's tweet...
But, as a graphologist...
I've seen the devastation of its misjudgment.

People sometimes get angry with me when I see in their handwriting what they're trying to hide.

The truth is sometimes too difficult to accept...

But it HAS to be revealed and understood.

Otherwise, what people fear the most will happen.

Truth doesn't cause pain & unhappiness...
It's the illusions that cause people unhappiness..
It's the false beliefs that torture people's souls.

Graphology is a wonderful tool to uncover why someone isn't ready to hear the truth...

A truth that will enlighten their soul...
About themselves and the important relationships in their life.

Life is about relationships, the resolved and unresolved.
Find inner peace...
Enlighten your individual beauty.

Know Your Self.....
Know Your Relationships.....
Know Your Solution.

Take care,
B.

Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious
www.bettyrozakis.com