Social Anxiety Remedy...

Life's about relationships...the resolved and unresolved.

 Gina, 42 years old, tearfully expressed...
      'I have extreme social anxiety
       I'm always concerned what other people think about me.
       I act a certain way so people will accept me.'

I saw in Gina's handwriting and tree drawing that she was afraid to express her thoughts. She was concealing something.  Her perspective was too narrowly focused.  There is evidence of a highly troublesome experience that happened when she was 16 years old. It lingers unresolved in her subconscious.  

At first, Gina couldn't think of anything in particular that happened when she was 16 years old.
We discussed more...

Her handwriting revealed that she was uncertain of her own value and that her character needed to understand in order to feel comfortable.
   
       'I was quiet as a child...
        My teachers coaches and friends would always say...
        You're SSSSoooo quiet what's wrong?'

Gina considered her self to be happy....
But her handwriting showed that her active mind was sad and tired...
In a constant fight against depression and headaches.

Gina became more reflective...

She met her first husband when she was 16.
She was head over heals in love...
She had a good time.

Her parent's were very negative toward her...
        'Nothing was ever good enough...
        Everyone was telling me how quiet I am.
        I HATE that stigma!'

Gina has an inquisitive deep sensitive mind.
Why is Gina SSSsooo focused on being accepted by her family and friends?
What continues to torment her subconscious that happened 16 years ago?

Gotta take a look at the handwriting and trees of those important relationships in her life for insight.
Gina is having her parent's provide a handwriting sample and tree drawing.
She is gathering samples of her first husband's handwriting...
Her current husband's as well.

Will Gina find clarity to resolve her social anxiety?
Stay tuned...

You Deserve a Great Relationship...

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Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious

Subconscious Need of a Drug Overdose...

Her nickname was 'Bella'...
This young mother's life was suddenly taken from her.
Her brother diligently gathered her handwritings for me.
What insight can I give to soften his burden?

Bella died a violent death from a drug overdose.
Beautiful is what others thought of her.
But it wasn't beauty that she longed for...

Sensitive and affectionate… Bella had a need for security.
Tradition with a sense of loyalty & belonging was important to her.
Bella longed to be accepted by friends and family.
Possessed with an ambivalent nature, Bella hid her feelings to protect herself.

Full of exaggerated tendencies…
Bella had difficulty adapting.
She didn’t know whether to conform or rebel.
She lacked confidence in her self and for the future.

Despite her debilitating feelings of self-doubt...
This young mother was able to assert herself when it most mattered!

Bella was full of confidence and happy feelings of generosity when she signed a legal document a short time before her death.  She gave her grandmother full custody of her son.
Bella gave her son the tradition and sense of belonging that she was unable to get for herself.

Bella fulfilled her subconscious need.

Because You Deserve a Great Relationship...

www.BettyRozakis.com
Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious

The Affair's Subconscious Cause...

When I first met Secret Amy there was something in her spirit that I sensed was unresolved.
What caused this mother of four to have an affair with a younger man?

Secret Amy wanted answers.
She sent me her handwriting and a few tree drawings.
Secret Amy wanted to know the cause of her possessed behavior.

I found the subconscious answer in the handwritings she gathered...
The notes, cards & envelopes of her lover, husband, mother and father.

My eye honed in on her lover's and father's handwritten notes.
There was something similar between her father and her lover.
Some traumatic sexual experience happened to Secret Amy during her early teens.
She couldn't remember anything early on...
She initially focused on her later teens.

When Secret Amy first read my Coffee with B analysis...
She acknowledged guilt feelings from a 'rape' experience that she didn't talk about to her therapist.
She referred to her self as a ' Sinner Born Bad.'
Where did this come from?
What unscrupulous exploiter preyed upon the goodness of a young girl?

Once Secret Amy read my book, Coffee with the Subconscious, she understood the importance of self honesty to get to the core of her disruptive behavior.

This is the misjudgment of her character...
Secret Amy's character passively expects others to know what she wants.
She has a hidden agenda that she's uncomfortable expressing.

Secret Amy stated...
'I feel I have vivid memories.
But memories are skewed.
I don't remember the truth...only what I think happened.'

What happened between Secret Amy and her father?
What Secret does Amy feel she has safely tucked away?
Why is Secret Amy SSSSSoooo full of Guilt?!

I'm still waiting for her to answer the question...
Why do you refer to your self as 'Sinner Born Bad?'

I wish Secret Amy didn't remind me of Faye Dunaway in Chinatown...
Who's responsible for preying on a young girl's need to be good?

Dear Amy....
Never be afraid to question the actions of others and express how you feel!

Coffee with the Subconscious.

Take care,
B.

Because You Deserve a Great Relationship...

www.bettyrozakis.com
Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious

Ode to George Rozakis, MD

His handwriting is Nuance...

He reaches out
He returns Hope.

He seeks to find answers.
Those scientific answers
That benefit mankind.

Breaking the boundaries of convention
To find a better way
To Solve the Inner Turmoil of Disease.

Ridding a man's need for a Pacemaker.
Preventing... Halting...Reversing...
Dementia, Alzheimer's, Parkinson's
Arthritis, Macular Degeneration, Migraine...

Giving kids their Freedom...
To Comfortably Fit -in and Learn...
YES...
Autism, Aspergers, ADHD
Definite Treatment without side effects.

Seek his help...
He's my husband.

Take care,
B.

Because You Deserve a Great Relationship...

www.bettyrozakis.com
Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious

Kim Kardashian's Letter to Khloe....Handwriting Analysis

Christina Esther posted this letter on my FB wall today from Kim Kardashian...
Written in 2002....
Kim's 22 years old.

What does Kim's handwriting say about her relationship with her sister, Khloe Kardashian?
Let's take a look..

Kim is trying to sound more convincing than she actually feels.

Childish and naive in her sentiments...

Kim feels hesitant, shy and withdrawn.

Conflicted in her feelings...

She has a need to belong and be accepted by friends and family.

Kim is motivated by sentimentality, admiration and other people's thoughts.

I later discovered a July 2012 Tweet...

I'd LOVE to accurately answer Kim's question about why she hates her handwriting...

It would be GREAT to see a recent handwritten letter to someone with her signature to see how her handwriting's evolved.  I would be able to give a more in-depth analysis of Kim's Character to benefit her.

Because You Deserve a Great Relationship...

www.bettyrozakis.com 

Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious

Thank You Kind Michele...

It was only a year ago...

Her leading kindness permeated the room...
Her silent yet soulful composure
Tried to hold steadfast to control her tears for another's pain.

A few weeks ago Michele Peace handed over her helm of WIN to another.
It was a subtle thoughtful step away.

Blessed with a Grace for Listening...
She brought solace and encouragement to my soul.

I don't know the reason for Michele's sudden death...
Why this calming spirit was suddenly thrust from her sons, husband, family and many friends.

Michele's Radiant Kindness lives on...
In the hearts of all she touched.
Her Memory is Truly Eternal.

Thank you Kind Michele...

Because You Deserve Great Relationships...

www.bettyrozakis.com
Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious

Why Can't I Be Happy Like Everyone Else?

A young woman came to see me.
She was tired of being Bi-Polar...
That it was consuming her...
She was either talkative, intense, active or silent...
She desperately sought balance in her life.

I asked her to write for me and draw a few trees.

Here's what her handwriting and trees revealed...

There was a youthfulness about her...
It was as if she was emotionally stuck in an earlier time of her life.
Something that she was secretive about.

Her character is socially competitive...
She cares how she is perceived by others.
She created an image that for her, was more socially acceptable than the truth.
It's this closed, inflexible attitude that causes her unpredictable moods...

She feels a need to protect herself...

She's afraid.

She's afraid of being unworthy...

She's got all this bottled up anger because she's suppressing a deeper need.

Some highly troublesome experience happened to her around the age of 10.

She feels ashamed.

Her pride and vanity are getting in the way of her honesty.

This is her misjudgment.

She needs introspection.

Honest self-acceptance is her remedy.

Try not to be overly concerned about your image to others.

It's your own genuine internal feelings and experiences that are more important.

The good and the bad!

She'll be happy once she tells the truth honestly without a socially acceptable spin even it it's negative.

Just like Anne Hathaway in the movie, Rachel Getting Married.

Because You Deserve a Great Relationship...

www.bettyrozakis.com

Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious