Philip Seymour Hoffman...Secrets of Addiction

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Life is about relationships… the resolved and unresolved.
I was saddened to learn of Philip Seymour Hoffman’s fatal overdose. What lingered in this gifted actor's subconscious that sprung such a massive yearning? Was there a secret that haunted his sensitive being? I was unable to find a sample of his handwriting to glean an answer that may help his children and others. My hope is that my Column will find someone who has his autograph... a note...a card...a letter.
Hoffman's affliction reminds me of a recent Oscar nominated movie, ‘August Osage County.’ This movie is a vivid depiction of what can happen to people caught in a web of unresolved early relationships and secrets.
Unresolved relationships hurt the individual. Avoidance and indifference only prolong the suffering. It’s those unresolved issues that torment our souls and affect those we love. They get buried in our subconscious, induce calamity and smother our innate beauty.
What about secrets? 
Secrets can never be safely tucked away. 
They infiltrate the atmosphere. 
Everyone feels the secret’s camouflage.

 Yes… We all feel those transgressions that get buried in our subconscious. The actions and attitudes we resort to in order to survive differ with the individual. In the movie, Meryl Streep engaged prescription drugs to ease her pain. Her husband, Sam Shephard resorted to alcoholism and then something else. Their children were stuck in a puzzling abyss that stifled their lives. 

 All because they shifted the focus from the truth! 
Can’t shift the focus. 
Gotta confront and reconcile the truth before it perpetuates more devastation.

I discuss all this in my book, 'Coffee with the Subconscious.' Most people don’t know how or where to look. Graphology provides an objective blueprint.


In the movie, after much physical and debilitating conflict…Julia Roberts found inner peace when the truth was revealed. This subconscious insight enabled her to reconcile her marriage and her child.
Relationships are easier when we feel good about ourselves. 
In real life I found an easier way... People’s handwriting offers insight for subconscious resolve.

Because You Deserve a Great Relationship...
www.bettyrozakis.com
Betty Rozakis Graphology

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  1. UnknownMarch 7, 2014 at 5:39 AM

    Sad when anyone takes their life Betty. Life, like walking with a tiny stone in your shoe. You must find time to stop, take out the stone, put your shoe back on and continue on your journey. Otherwise you must deal with the pain of that stone and all the complications that come with it... Tony Apotsos

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    1. Betty RozakisMarch 7, 2014 at 7:29 AM

      Yes it's tragic, Tony. Love your analogy... Yes...'must find time to stop...' But we need to confront and understand that stone before it can be dissolved. In my book I refer to this 'stone' as Confronting our Medusa's. The best way I've found is to look at the handwriting and, if available, the tree drawings of the people involved. B.

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