Thursday, September 30, 2010

Defending Lady Gaga...

I remember an evening on Facebook....
One of my friends was defending Lady Gaga.

Amidst the debating rhetoric....
Gina provided a link....
This link had a picture....
A Depiction...

A Confident yet Demure Lady Gaga...

I became intrigued and wanted to find out more.
Lady Gaga reminded me of Janis Joplin.

Gina personally met Lady Gaga...
Spent quality time on her touring bus.
Lady Gaga personalized her Tour Book....
Addressing Gina along with her Signature.

There was something puzzling about the handwriting.
It had a contradictory quality about it.

Lady Gaga...
Full of imagination...
Idealism...
Vivacity.

Lady Gaga feels like an Impostor....
Escaping to another realm...
An exalted whimsical realm.

Lady Gaga is emotionally tired.....
Her character is emotionally drained.
Innately reserved and introspective...
She has a deep need to belong...

Lady Gaga's character has a need....
A need for authenticity and self-esteem....
The right productive activity....

In her political fight to repeal a law...
Stefani Joanne Angelina Germanotta
Spoke to the world as herself...

Independent.....
Authentic....
Dressed in her own conservative style.
Full of self-esteem....
Productive purpose!

Take care,
B

Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious.
www.bettyrozakis.com

Friday, September 17, 2010

Handwriting Answers Your Questions.......F29

I received a text the other day.

I want a dog...
And my Independence...
Why do I like being alone so much?

She wanted me to write a Blog...
A Blog about why she wanted to Be Alone.
Why she wanted her Independence.

I asked her to hand write me a Dear B letter.

To see her state of mind...
To figure out her Basic Character...
To see if she's stuck in a particular Energy Level.

What are the Dominant Signs in her writing?
What Defense Mechanisms is she using?

To See who she wants her Independence from.
To See why she wants to Be Alone.

Once I figure out her Basic Character...
And SEE her Subconscious.
I'll be able to give her a tangible answer.

I can't answer her questions without seeing her handwriting!

She said Ok.
But then.....

I'm still waiting.

Know Your Self......Know Your Relationships......Know Your Solution

Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious
www.bettyrozakis.com

Another Handwriting That Haunts....

I loved him....
I came across a card he wrote to his wife.
Passionately contained...
An original and gifted mind.

He had a stubbornness about him...
An aggressive and progressive mind.
A brilliant mind.
An Honorable man.
But his signature gave him away.
His signature in contrast with the rest of his handwriting.

He once wrote for me that "Graphology was baloney".
The underscore in his signature depicted such stubborn will-power and tenacity.
His signature was such a 'tug-of-war' between expansion and suppression...
A prodigal naivety...
Sensitivity and worry...
No wonder he got sick....

The personal unresolved relationships in your life...
Can slowly eat away at your soul!
Don't let this happen to you!

Know Your Self.....Know Your Relationships....Know Your Solution.

The Dead Still Speak...

I found some old handwritten cards....
I wanted to understand.

There once was a man...

We all loved him.
His exaggerated impulsiveness....
Dramatized feelings...
He had a need to attract attention
To be loved.

A man of principle...
Reflective with self-control..
Indecisive in action....
But quite assertive in stating an opinion!

He suffered from a deep rooted depression...
A Cerebral Melancholic ...
In need of mental activity
Searching for answers.
Losing touch with reality.

A deeply sensitive man...
Susceptible and felt badly placed.
He got sick....
The Doctors never found out why.
His innate character suffered anxiety...
Always wanting to do the correct thing...
The RIGHT thing.

He tried to relax and appreciate life...
Escaping to Greece.

I tried to be optimistic for him...
B....I'M DYING!

My helplessness continues to haunt me....

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Dear B...Why Am I Upset & Frustrated? F17

Dear B...
It is just that I sometimes wonder if by being myself,
wearing my heart on my sleeve
is making me too vulnerable for my own good.
Bandage

You're impressionable but with a reserved attitude.
A bit nervous and indecisive you strive to be independent.
You aspire and have potential...
You want to be consistent and reliable in character and thought.

You're currently preoccupied with wanting to belong...
To be accepted by family and friends....
A need to captivate others.
You're trying to be flexible in how you protect your feelings and emotions.
Getting a bit caught up in dreams...
and impractical things.

Some of your frustration could be...
Your parents splitting up?
Trying to maintain relations with both.
This focused energy needs an outlet...
A constructive outlet...
A time to develop personal skills.

You know how to focus your attentions...
Concentrate.
This is the time to balance your social needs ...
Do something practical or creative for yourself.
What do you find absorbing?
Don't forget about those physical activities....

You have a pleasant rhythm about you...
What about some sort of dancing?

Never be afraid to express yourself...
Channel your heart from your sleeve.
Create something tangible...
A work of art....a dance...
Something for you....
A reflection of your heart.

Take care,
B.

Know Your Self.......Know Your Relationships......Know Your Solution








Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Dear B ........Searching for Answers F50

Dear B...
What can you tell about me from my writing...
Can you tell anything about the state of my health?
What do the trees show?
Can you tell anything about how an employer might view me as a perspective employee?
Carcharm

Dear Carcharm...

Deeply intelligent
You have a clear and objective mind....
But are too conciliatory in your attitude.
You're overly trying to do the correct and right thing...
You're unhappy and trying to hide your true feelings and emotions.
You're optimistic and need your independence.

You're receptive and have a need to express yourself....
But you're holding back.
Desiring to be appreciated...
Feelings of impotence linger.

Some sort of irregularity persists...
Sudden outburst of emotion / action...
Paroxysm of laughter.
Irregularity in Endocrine system...
Visceral spasms...
Nervous energy.

Psychological barriers persist.
Lack of freedom of feeling.
Inner conflicts.
Inconsistent will-power and action.
Lack of emotional equilibrium
Lack of Inner harmony and peace.

Drawings indicate...
Secret longing to be approached...
Sense of honor...achievement...hope.
Feeling under pressure.
Energy flow is blocked off.

A highly troublesome experience
Torments your soul....
Buried deep in your subconscious...
It happened during your mid-teens.
Carcharm's cerebral melancholic character...
Feels uncomfortable until she understands.
Lets examine the past for closure.

In addition....
Carcharm feels inhibited and lacks courage.
She lacks the courage to be honest about the person she feels she should love.
Your relationship with him could be the source of your inner woes.
Should we take a look at his writing for an objective perspective?

How would an employer view you?

A smart creative mind...
Independent attitude..
Adaptable...
Knows how to take the initiative.
Abides by the rules of the organization.

There's no need for you to feel inferior to others....
You need mental activity.
The attraction of an interesting occupation...
This is the best means for you to feel better about yourself!

Carcharm....
Optimistically Searching for Answers.

Take care,
B.

Know Your Self......Know Your Relationships....Know Your Solution

Sunday, September 12, 2010

The Pseudonym That Wasn't...

I received a Dear B letter in the mail...
I was looking forward to helping another.
I didn't expect what slowly emerged.

It was a pleasant and amiable handwriting....
A sense of its own rhythm.
She didn't ask me a specific question.

Approaching sixty....
Her self-image is troubled by an event that occurred so...long....ago.
It happened during her mid to late twenties...
It continues to haunt her.
She needs self-acceptance.

She's making an effort to clarify and develop her thinking process...
And wants to emphasize her own position....
But she feels insecure.
She's easily influenced emotionally...
But manages to maintain her sense of reserve.

There's something about feeling obsequious...
Yielding to the desires of another.
This submissive attitude is wearing you out!

You have a natural graceful way about you.
Well-mannered, you know how to persevere and artfully manage things your way.
You're quite capable...kind-hearted...and charming.
You have aesthetic talents, careful and progressive judgment.

Why continue...
Concealing your own motives and feelings?
Stop doing what you think you SHOULD do.
Do what YOU want to do....
Only then will you ...
"See a clearer picture" of your journey.

Sorry I didn't address you with the Pseudonym you provided....
Lizzybluts seemed to be more of an Allonym.

Take care,
B.

Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious
www.bettyrozakis.com

Know Your Self........Know Your Relationships........Know Your Solution

Friday, September 3, 2010

Eternal Nurturer

He believes in them...
Those sparkling deep set of eyes
The erect posture
That has its own rhythm.

A knowing rhythm...
A kind rhythm...
He brings them comfort
A comfort to their unique being.

The inquisitive deeply sensitive mind....
The detached observer of the passing scene.
But he's not really detached....
He can't be...
It's not in his nature.
It's his way of inclusion.

A Magnanimous inclusion.

Betty Rozakis Graphology
Author of Coffee with the Subconscious
www.bettyrozakis.com

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